Guide · For owners
Living with an HOA
A friendly, practical guide to homeowners and condo associations, from rules and approvals to parking, pets, renting in an HOA and talking with the board.
Where to start
- Got a violation notice?
Take a breath. A notice is usually a reminder, not an accusation. See if you get a violation notice.
- Moving into an association?
Ask for the rules and the most recent newsletter on move in day, then tick through settling in.
- Owner renting a home in an HOA?
The short version
Associations keep communities looking their best, and they work best when everyone knows the rules and treats each other kindly.
Get the association rules early, and learn the rules for parking, trash, pets, noise and amenities.
Ask before any exterior change, and owners, share the rules with residents and register them as required.
If a notice arrives, read it, fix the issue if you can, send a dated photo, and respond kindly in writing.
Association rules and laws differ from place to place, so we’d gently encourage a quick look at the rules where your home is. If you ever have questions, we would love to help.
Four simple rules
- 1Read the rules early
Get the association’s rules and governing documents before moving in, or before buying or renting.
- 2Ask before you change anything
Many associations require approval for exterior changes, from paint colors to fences and satellite dishes.
- 3Owners pass rules along
Owners who rent should share the association rules with residents, and residents should follow them.
- 4Talk early and kindly
A friendly question to the manager or board usually prevents a violation notice.
Settling in
From the guide’s HOA checklist. Tick each one as you go. Your ticks stay on this device. These are examples; your home may need others.
All done. You’re set to feel at home in your community.
Rules that often surprise people
These are examples, not a complete list. New residents are often caught off guard by trash can timing, holiday decoration dates, rules about parking work trucks or RVs, short term rental bans, window coverings and patio storage. Pet limits, quiet hours, pool guest rules and approval for exterior changes come up a lot too.
If your neighbor did something, they may have gotten approval, or they may be about to get a notice. Ask before you copy. It saves money and stress.
Owners, put a one page summary of the most important rules in your welcome sheet. Residents follow the rules they actually know about.
If you get a violation notice
- Take a breath. A notice is usually a reminder, not an accusation.
- Read it carefully and look up the rule it mentions. If you rent, share the notice with the owner right away, since the owner is usually the association’s contact.
- Fix the issue if you can, then take a dated photo showing it’s done and send it right away.
- If you think the notice is a mistake, respond in writing, kindly, with photos or details. Please don’t ignore it. Unanswered notices can lead to fines.
- Keep copies of every notice and response. You did exactly the right thing.
Renting a home in an association
From the guide’s HOA checklist for owners. Tick each one as you go. Your ticks stay on this device. These are examples; your home may need others.
All done. Your residents can feel at home from day one.
For owners when an issue comes up
- Pass any association notice along to residents promptly and kindly, and work with them to fix it.
- Respond to the association in writing.
- Request approval in writing before exterior changes or major repairs.
- Go to a meeting now and then, or read the minutes, so you know about upcoming rules, projects or assessments.
- Keep copies of all association letters and emails for each home.
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Helpful resources
HUD: Housing Discrimination Under the Fair Housing Act and LawHelp.org: legal information and referrals by state. Association rules, fines, rental limits and owner rights come from governing documents and laws that differ from place to place. A quick look at your documents and the rules where your home is goes a long way, and an attorney in your area can help.
How much do you remember?
4 quick questions from this guide, with a one line why for each. Totally optional, no sign in, and your answers are never saved.
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This guide shares general information to help you, and is not legal advice. Bunklow is not affiliated with any association and does not decide disputes.